Saturday, February 12, 2011

Life with a 2 week old

Things have been going fairly well so far in my opinion. Josh went back to work and my mom back to Colorado. I've been doing this on my own for about a week and so far we've all survived! Samantha has had her moments in the night where she just won't go back to sleep, but for the most part she gives us a couple hours at a time.

She was great at breastfeeding for the first 4 or 5 days and then had enough of it. After lactation consultants, middle of the night screaming and us being stressed wanting to be able to feed our daughter, we our now feeding her formula. We give her as much as we can from pumping, but it's mostly formula. Her doctor is okay with it, and frankly the hardest part I think for me was admitting that she was not going to be breastfed. Again, the best laid plans sometimes... She loves her bottle and we are all much happier and have less stress. At this point I don't care what other people think, I just want to feed my daughter.

We had her 2 week doctors appointment and found out she needs to be eating more to start gaining more weight. I think trying to figure out what to feed her threw us all for a loop, but she's eating like a champ now. We almost doubled what we were feeding her and she sucks it all down, she'll be packing on the weight in no time. Feeding her more also helps with output... so to speak. She went a few days with nothing but wet diapers so Josh and I had to manually get it started again... now we are good to go. It has also helped already with sleep at night. Last night she went for a couple 4 hour stretches, we loved it.

Her latest thing is whenever Josh changes her diaper right after he takes it off she pees all over... it of course goes all over her, the changing pad, and up her back, requiring a whole change of attire... she has yet to do this to me, so of course I think it's hilarious. Also last Monday her cord fell off so we can now give her real baths and forget this sponge bath stuff. Much easier.

I think that's all for baby updates for now... below are pictures from her room, we finally hung her name up, and from her first real bath.

I found the letters, painted them, and put polka dots at each end in brown, green, and mirrored.



Daddy doing her hair after bath time.



We had to fight over the washcloth.

Monday, February 7, 2011

More Photos of Samantha

No updates, just more photos.

Sam on the left, me on the right... that's where the hair came from


Sleepin on daddy


Silly girl

Saturday, February 5, 2011

Samantha Kelly is here!

So much for waiting for a due date. Due to mild preeclampsia we went in early to meet our beautiful baby girl. I got a phone call Tuesday the 25th from my doctor saying she wanted to get me in to get rid of the preeclampsia, and the only way to do that was to induce. Being full term and ready to go, emotions started to go crazy. I was work when I got the phone call, having just met the woman I was going to train for the next 2 weeks to take over my job while I'm gone... so much for that! She got one quick 6 hour crash course before I was off. I called my mom and she was able to change her flight to get here in time, called Josh of course to let him know what was going on, called my dad, and called Josh's mom. After that I tried to go back to work for my final day in 2 months. Ha!

We were told to check in a midnight Wed night/Thurs morning... I didn't work Wednesday and tried to make myself as busy as possible to keep my mind off things, but at the same time rest up knowing I was going to need it. Little did I know.

Long day/night/story short... after checking in a midnight and getting everything going just around 1am, the pitocin started just before 8am, my doc broke my water at about 8:30am, and by just about 8pm I got an epidural. I was hoping to go natural, but with the preclampsia and induction plus the magnesium sulfate, it was just too much. 12 hours of contractions did me in, especially not being able to eat or drink anything all day. I was finally able to get a bit of rest after the epidural, but not peaceful as I was constantly being monitored. Just before 1am Friday I was told to start pushing. It was finally time!!! Well, kind of. Samantha Kelly decided to join us at 3:41 am Friday, January 28, 2011. She weighed in at 8 lbs 5 oz, 21 inches long and a full head of hair. Everyone seemed surprised by her hair but Josh and I were expecting it. She had great color and looked absolutely perfect. Josh cut the cord, and then she was all ours. We just held her for as long as we could, family came in around 5am, and by 6am it was time for bed!

Since then it's been a blur, I can't believe it's been a week, today was supposed to be my first day of maternity leave at work, so things definitely didn't happen as we planned. Not a bad thing, but throws us off a bit. We've had visitors everyday, which is great. Josh is already back to work, and as of Tuesday my mom will be back to Colorado and I'll get to/have to, do this mommy thing all on my own. I'm anxious, but also looking forward to it.

She doesn't exactly like to sleep at night, she'll give us a few hours then be fussy for a few, then give us a few more hours... we're learning what we can do on very little sleep. I'm learning what I can do with a beat up body. Sam made her grand entrance in a painful way to my body and I am on strict orders to take care of myself with 6 weeks of rest... ummm ya, with a newborn? Ok.

Finally, the part everyone cares about... pictures!










Wednesday, January 19, 2011

All things Baby

Since my last post I've had 2 more baby showers. One during lunch at work, and the other last Saturday with Josh's side of the family. No photos from either of those. There were some taken at the work shower but I haven't seen any, may never. They were both great fun, and it's great to feel so loved by so many people! Thank you to everyone who was a part of any of the 4 showers and for everything you've done over the years.

Last Sunday after all the showers concluded Josh and I went to Babies R Us to finish up getting whatever else we figured we'd need for the next few months... basically to get her to her 6 month point... starting out is expensive when you have nothing. Josh is already thinking about how much better it will be with number 2 not having to start from scratch. We know there's plenty more to get but are finally feeling all set and ready for her to make her arrival!

Last week at my doctor's appointment we found out I am already 1 cm dilated, I have another appointment tomorrow... we'll see if the pressure I feel is making more progress or simply just my daughter playing with me already. 3 Weeks to go... give or take. Luckily our doctor has already said she won't let me go more than one week past my due date... so for real she will be here in 4 weeks!

We finally have the nursery done... later than I would have hoped, finished it last night, but it's done! Josh has been great doing everything I want and re-doing after I change my mind. :o) The only thing we have not touched is the wall above the crib. We are planning on hanging her name written out in wooden letters. We have the letters, all painted, ready to go... we're just waiting until she's here so no one can see her name before we're ready. That's about all we're waiting for. Everything else is ready to go! Josh has the car seat installed in his car, I have a spare base in mine, just not installed yet. I don't plan on driving myself to the hospital! It will get installed hopefully this weekend.

Until next time... here are the pictures I've been promising.

 Building the crib!







 

 She's already got more clothes than her dad

Hanging in her closet... a little reminder

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Stollen Article

So while sitting here on my lunch break I read this article on things babies born in 2011 will never know... Some I agree with and good riddance, some make me sad. My Comments are in Blue... for some items. Thanks yahoo!


1. Video tape: Starting this year, the news stories we produce here at Money Talks have all been shot, edited, and distributed to TV stations without ever being on any kind of tape. Not only that, the tape-less broadcast camera we use today offers much higher quality than anything that could have been imagined 10 years ago -- and cost less than the lens on the camera we were using previously. That's fine, we don't have a way to play them anyway.

2. Travel agents: While not dead today, this profession is one of many that's been decimated by the Internet. When it's time for their honeymoon, will those born in 2011 be able to find one?

3. The separation of work and home: When you're carrying an email-equipped computer in your pocket, it's not just your friends who can find you -- so can your boss. For kids born this year, the wall between office and home will be blurry indeed. Some people brought work home even before technology made it easy, this isn't new in my opinion it's a matter of what you chose to bring home.

4. Books, magazines, and newspapers: Like video tape, words written on dead trees are on their way out. Sure, there may be books -- but for those born today, stores that exist solely to sell them will be as numerous as record stores are now. With who this child's grandparents are I have no doubt she'll know what books are!

5. Movie rental stores: You actually got in your car and drove someplace just to rent a movie?

6. Watches: Maybe as quaint jewelry, but the correct time is on your smartphone, which is pretty much always in your hand. I can't imagine not wearing a watch, and yes I use it!

7. Paper maps: At one time these were available free at every gas station. They're practically obsolete today, and the next generation will probably have to visit a museum to find one.

8. Wired phones: Why would you pay $35 every month to have a phone that plugs into a wall? For those born today, this will be a silly concept. We still have a home phone

9. Long distance: Thanks to the Internet, the days of paying more to talk to somebody in the next city, state, or even country are limited.

10. Newspaper classifieds: The days are gone when you have to buy a bunch of newsprint just to see what's for sale.

11. Dial-up Internet: While not everyone is on broadband, it won't be long before dial-up Internet goes the way of the plug-in phone. Do people even still have dial up?

12. Encyclopedias: Imagine a time when you had to buy expensive books that were outdated before the ink was dry. This will be a nonsense term for babies born today.

13. Forgotten friends: Remember when an old friend would bring up someone you went to high school with, and you'd say, "Oh yeah, I forgot about them!" The next generation will automatically be in touch with everyone they've ever known even slightly via Facebook.

14. Forgotten anything else: Kids born this year will never know what it was like to stand in a bar and incessantly argue the unknowable. Today the world's collective knowledge is on the computer in your pocket or purse. And since you have it with you at all times, why bother remembering anything? It's fun to watch those arguments though, that's sad.

15. The evening news: The news is on 24/7. And if you're not home to watch it, that's OK -- it's on the smartphone in your pocket.

16. CDs: First records, then 8-track, then cassette, then CDs -- replacing your music collection used to be an expensive pastime. Now it's cheap(er) and as close as the nearest Internet connection.

17. Film cameras: For the purist, perhaps, but for kids born today, the word "film" will mean nothing. In fact, even digital cameras -- both video and still -- are in danger of extinction as our pocket computers take over that function too. I would still love to have a dark room in my house... even though I use my digital camera these days, it would be fun to do again.

18. Yellow and White Pages: Why in the world would you need a 10-pound book just to find someone? Someone needs to tell them to stop delivering to our house then!

19. Catalogs: There's no need to send me a book in the mail when I can see everything you have for sale anywhere, anytime. If you want to remind me to look at it, send me an email.
20. Fax machines: Can you say "scan," ".pdf" and "email?" These can go away now! I hate our fax machine at work.

21. One picture to a frame: Such a waste of wall/counter/desk space to have a separate frame around each picture. Eight gigabytes of pictures and/or video in a digital frame encompassing every person you've ever met and everything you've ever done -- now, that's efficient. Especially compared to what we used to do: put our friends and relatives together in a room and force them to watch what we called a "slide show" or "home movies."

22. Wires: Wires connecting phones to walls? Wires connecting computers, TVs, stereos, and other electronics to each other? Wires connecting computers to the Internet? To kids born in 2011, that will make as much sense as an electric car trailing an extension cord.

23. Hand-written letters: For that matter, hand-written anything. When was the last time you wrote cursive? In fact, do you even know what the word "cursive" means? Kids born in 2011 won't -- but they'll put you to shame on a tiny keyboard. I remember thinking cursive was stupid to learn when I had to learn it, everything needed to be typed back then!

24. Talking to one person at a time: Remember when it was rude to be with one person while talking to another on the phone? Kids born today will just assume that you're supposed to use texting to maintain contact with five or six other people while pretending to pay attention to the person you happen to be physically next to. Again, something that you chose to instill in your children... being rude cannot be what is socially accepted!

25. Retirement plans: Yes, Johnny, there was a time when all you had to do was work at the same place for 20 years and they'd send you a check every month for as long as you lived. In fact, some companies would even pay your medical bills, too! Hell, I hope I still know what this is!

26. Mail: What's left when you take the mail you receive today, then subtract the bills you could be paying online, the checks you could be having direct-deposited, and the junk mail you could be receiving as junk email? Answer: A bloated bureaucracy that loses billions of taxpayer dollars annually.

27. Commercials on TV: They're terrifically expensive, easily avoided with DVRs, and inefficiently target mass audiences. Unless somebody comes up with a way to force you to watch them -- as with video on the Internet -- who's going to pay for them?

28. Commercial music radio: Smartphones with music-streaming programs like Pandora are a better solution that doesn't include ads screaming between every song.

29. Hiding: Not long ago, if you didn't answer your home phone, that was that -- nobody knew if you were alive or dead, much less where you might be. Now your phone is not only in your pocket, it can potentially tell everyone -- including advertisers -- exactly where you are.

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Baby Shower #2 (Friends)

Last Sunday was my second baby shower, this one with the women from Josh's core group of guy friends (wives and mothers) and some of my lifelong friends/family. Thanks to Julie Manson for throwing a great shower! Everything was so wonderful, the decorations, food, and atmosphere. Thanks to everyone who came.

2 showers down, 2 more to go before our little one makes her grand entrance!








Saturday, January 1, 2011

Baby Shower #1 (Rommels)

So I don't actually have any photos from Christmas of the holiday with family, but Christmas eve was the first of many baby showers, this one with my mom's side of the family before the Christmas festivities began. The men all hid in the basement while the women gathered around the Christmas tree while my cousin Holly and I opened baby presents. She's pregnant with her second child, due 12 days after me. Every now and then you'd see a guy sneak upstairs... I think it took them a while to realize we had all the food, while they had none. Anyway, I got some good stuff, including the pack and play we registered for. Josh and I put it together last night to see how it works, and we're glad we did since it wasn't as fast as we thought, we needed the practice setting all this baby stuff up!

Here are some pictures from the shower.